A partner is never owned and can disappear from our life anytime - be it through disease, death or separation. : Der gesunde Weg aus dem Müdigkeitslabyrinth, Mit 30-Tage-Selbsthilfeprogramm. Desire exists in the spaces between people. Januar 2019. Januar 2018. Mating in Captivity (2006) explores the question that everyone in a committed relationship asks: Is it possible to sustain passion over a long period of time? 3 Personen fanden diese Informationen hilfreich. Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. September 2020. This … State of Affairs, Mating In Captivity, Come As You Are, Sex At Dawn 4 … Modern romance promises it all - a lifetime of togetherness, intimacy and erotic desire. Our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. I became aware of her via a TED talk that she gave recently about infidelity. There's an age old clichés about marital problems occurring because of a lack of communication, and the basis of the book seems to be just that; problems occur because couples just don't tell each other what's really going on in their minds. Author Esther Perel believes it is, but she thinks we can only generate sexual excitement by reassessing modern ideals around commitment and better understanding how our personal histories affect our behavior in the bedroom. She also explains what it takes to bring lust home. Great talk, and that led me to buy this book. Energy! 11 Personen fanden diese Informationen hilfreich, Rezension aus Deutschland vom 21. Mating in Captivity Reconciling the Erotic + the Domestic. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. She really clues you in to how relationships can happily exist long-term, and her answers are not necessarily those that I expected. Dezember 2017. I haven’t completely read a book in years and I smashed through this, it’s got highlights, notes and all sorts all over it now. Bitte versuchen Sie es erneut. Hugely interesting book. Wiederholen Sie die Anforderung später noch einmal. that you own something or someone and that it's just here to please us forever like a peace of furniture. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long … Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Esther comes forward with this and so many other simple and crucial but largely forgotten truths. Zugelassene Drittanbieter verwenden diese Tools auch in Verbindung mit der Anzeige von Werbung durch uns. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. The former focuses on reigniting desire—Perel’s use of the word may be easier to explain as erotic passion—in a relationship and the latter covers the broader subject of saving the relationship itself. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Lesen Sie „Mating in Captivity Unlocking Erotic Intelligence“ von Esther Perel erhältlich bei Rakuten Kobo. More exciting, playful, even poetic sex is possible, but first we must kick egalitarian ideals and emotional housekeeping out of our bedrooms. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Rezension aus Deutschland vom 18. If you are in a longterm relationship and you are dissatisfied with your sex life read this book! In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel looks at the story of sex in committed couples. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Juni 2015. Ein Buch für alle, die jemals geliebt haben (Ungekürzt), Was Liebe braucht - Das Geheimnis des Begehrens in festen Beziehungen, Was Liebe aushält - Untreue überdenken. This is a very feminine book in the way it deals with subject matter mostly through an emotional appeal through the authors own experience. Epigraph WILD THINGS IN CAPTIVITY Wild things in captivity while they keep their own wild purity won’t breed, they mope, they die. September 2018. A book about everything and nothing, she just use provocative topics to hook your attention. A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Rezension aus Deutschland vom 20. Esther is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcasts Where Should We Begin? I love the way Esther Perel thinks and talks about sex and relationships - forthright but generous, open-minded, realistic and practical but also often poetic. Ein Buch für alle, die jemals geliebt haben, Statt 15.00 € Ihre Einwilligung können Sie jederzeit durch erneuten Aufruf dieses Cookie-Banners am Ende der In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel looks at the story of sex in committed couples. Perel promoted the concept of "erotic intelligence" in her book Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (2006), which has been translated into 24 languages. with respect and your best self. and How’s Work? 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